As a lady in this cruel world, as much as you want to meet that perfect guy, it's totally upto you to ensure that you're safe when going out on dates. Whether you know the person through an intro done by a friend or it's a stranger you met online, there are safety rules you have to follow always when going on dates. Never at any point think 'he seems different' and let your guard down. Remember that people are very good at putting on a facade.

That said, when going on dates with someone you don't know very well, always follow these safety rules.

1. Start by checking Google.

Search engines can sometimes give a lot of info such as his LinkedIn or Facebook profile, which can give you clues on what kind of a person he is. At the same time, you may not find any details online but it's still worth the search. You could save yourself from a catastrophe about to happen.

2. Let a family member or close friend know where you're going.

Have you seen all these mysterious posters of people going missing? Never assume you will return home in one piece. It's a nasty world out there.

3. Meet in a public place.

And by public I don't mean a quiet corner in a restaurant, but somewhere that people can see everything going on in the event something happens. A perfect place would be a busy food court or coffee shop.

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4. Never ever leave your drink unattended.

If you have to, wait till you finish, to take a bathroom break and make sure you let the guy know that you're okay, drinks-wise so that he doesn't buy one in your absence. You might end up being drugged.

5. Never get too drunk.

Getting hammered is a bad idea. You could end up in this person's bed, only to be raped all night. Unfortunately, very few people understand consent.

6. Speaking of which, always carry protection with you.

You never really know, you may end up liking each other and next thing you know, you're in bed having consensual sex. You might as well be prepared.

7. Always take your own transport to and from the date.

Again, there are malicious people out there. He might promise to take you home but then you end up being kidnapped or raped. Better safe than sorry.

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