The best thing about these moves is that you will enjoy them as much if not more from his elated reaction. Try starting with sex talk since great communication is the door to great sex.
7 sexy activities that he will never forget
If you are curious whether your man will like some of the sexy ideas you have, or if you'd like to surprise him, here are seven memorable moves that both of you will appreciate.
You don't have to talk about everything you want to do, but figure out the basics like comfort levels, boundaries, and the like.
But if you want personal research before diving into the conversation, here are some ideas we picked from "sexperts" for you. They are also safe to surprise him with (since telling him "incoming move" is just...no.)
1. Show him how you like it
Men are very visual, use that to your advantage. Show him by moving your body, his hands, and other physical things, how you like to have a good time. According to Vanessa Geffrard, sexpert for Lovers adult wellness brand and retailer, be as tactile with him and yourself as possible. You can order him to simply watch as you do whatever move tickles your fancy.
Speaking of visuals, play with visual enhancers in your vicinity to your advantage. Mirrors are a great way to enhance his visual experience, and lighting too.
2. Take him outside the bedroom
There's safety in the bedroom. You know where to go and what to do, and more than that the bedroom is familiar and lets you easily slip into the sexy goddess you are. Perhaps this is why you and he need a change of scenery. Forget the variety of scenery for a second, this is about a new experience for both of you.
“Men love variety. Keep it exciting by exploring new places to play, such as the kitchen table, laundry room, in the car, or even outside," says Jacqueline Misla, sex expert and COO of Curious Fox.
3. Lock your eyes
He wants you to make that direct eye contact. He wants to see that you are present with him and to receive that physical as well as emotional validation that he's doing great. The more you lose yourself in the moment, the better for him.
“Men want to see how their partner is feeling and reacting to what they're doing,” says relationship expert Chloe Ballatore.
4. Give him laughter
Isn't it strange that when the clothes come off it's like you both become strangers? Sex doesn't have to be serious at all. It should not be alien to other aspects of the relationship and both personalities. That being said, men like to be playful, and bringing your sense of humour will always keep your man relaxed. It will also make him more spontaneous and intimate since the pressure to perform is kicked out.
5. Give him your voice
Your bedroom noises are liberating for you and music to his ears. Don't hold back from making noises of pleasure. Bring it up in the sex conversation if you need to. Being vocal this way is also a way of communicating without saying anything, but sexier.
6. Take charge of him
Sex is like a group project. Although there's no competition, you want to get that orga..uuuh A no matter what the others are doing. So if the deadline is getting closer and it seems the others are not closer, it is fair game to take control to beat it.
7. Give him shock value
Surprise him, and yourself, with a hookup. There's nothing like bringing out his wild side with your wild side. Show him that you are down to play. It can be something he mentioned, a new position, an unexpected place, or a sex item. Drive him crazy, not literally.
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