Clear signs you are the problem in your relationship

Many a time, we always blame our partners if the relationship does not work as it should. But have you ever thought that you could be the real problem? Yes, it’s very possible that all along, it’s always been your fault. Only that you have never noticed or you just don’t want to admit.

In relationships, we always see the fault in our partners but give a blind eye to our faults. If you have been doing these things, it’s very clear that you are the problem in your relationship:

1. Your needs are the only ones that matter

When was the last time you sacrificed your comfort for the sake of your partner’s needs? Do you even know their needs or is it always about your needs? If so, stop being selfish for crying out loud.

2. Your way is the only way

If things can only be done in your way, you have a problem. A big one for that matter. Let your partner have a say and respect their opinion. Otherwise, they will soon get enough of your bossiness.

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3. You are so controlling

It’s one thing to give advice to your partner but it’s another to try and change them or control their life. They have a life and you don’t own them. So stop parenting them and let them enjoy the freedom to make their choices.

4. You let your partner do everything for you

Taking is very easy and you may not notice that you are over-burdening your partner until they can’t take it anymore. And this involves the simple things like letting your partner do all the household chores while you do nothing or letting them foot all the bills on their own.

5. You never say you are sorry

We should even be talking about this but it’s very important. If you are the kind of person who never accepts their mistakes, blame yourself for all the failed relationships you have had.

6. You hold on to things

If your partner forgot your anniversary two years ago and you are still holding on to it, it’s high time you learn to let go. Especially if your partner always apologizes for their mistakes, don’t hold on to the past.

7. You go silent

Your partner is not a mind reader. If there is an issue that needs to be addressed, speak out. Silence will not make anything better.