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5 things men do that make them instantly unattractive

Ever met a woman who was completely charmed by you when you first met, but suddenly, she became unresponsive and lost interest? It can be confusing and frustrating to figure out what went wrong.
Coming to terms with your feelings entails expressing your emotions in a way that is constructive such as expressing your pain in a journal while processing the much that is happening rather than suppressing them.
Coming to terms with your feelings entails expressing your emotions in a way that is constructive such as expressing your pain in a journal while processing the much that is happening rather than suppressing them.

It can be confusing and frustrating to figure out what went wrong. Here are five things you might be doing that can make you seem instantly unattractive to her:

Asking for pictures too soon

If you start asking for pictures too early in the conversation, it can come across as pushy and make her uncomfortable. It’s important to build a connection first instead of making her feel pressured to share images.

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Too many calls and texts

Constantly calling or texting her can be overwhelming and show a lack of respect for her space. While communication is key, excessive contact can come off as needy or controlling, making you less appealing.

Taking advantage of her kindness

If you’re always on the receiving end of her generosity without reciprocating, it can make her feel unappreciated and used. Relationships are about balance, so make sure you’re giving back as much as you receive to maintain her interest.

Always asking her to visit you

If you're constantly asking her to come over to your place without making an effort to go to hers or meet in neutral spaces, it may signal that you’re only interested in convenience or intimacy. Show her you value spending time together by putting in the effort to plan outings or meet on her terms.

Being inconsistent

Inconsistency is a major turnoff. Whether it’s being hot and cold, not following through on plans, or giving mixed signals, it can lead to confusion and frustration. Women value reliability and stability, so if you want to keep her interested, be consistent in your actions and words.

If you find yourself guilty of any of these behaviours, it's time to reevaluate and make positive changes to keep the attraction strong and the connection genuine.

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