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Taking to Instagram on Monday morning, May 27, she listed what she termed as "10 physical symptoms that disappeared when I left my abusive marriage."
They are as below:
- Sadness (My eyes couldn’t even open; I was always squinting).
- Weight loss (This one needs no mention).
- Hair loss (Everyone thought I had no hair but now I chop quarterly).
- Pale tired skin (You can safely say ‘nali musiwufu’).
- Unexplained fatigue (Now I am rejuvenated and energetic).
- Always bloated (Don’t remember when I recently felt bloated).
- Quiet and reserved (I was powerless… I actually can talk and I am both reserved and outgoing).
- Sadness.
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- Sadness.
Daniella Atim, who was married to singer Jose Chameleone for 16 years, recently listed 11 things she would never tell a woman in an abusive marriage.
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They were:
- It's just a spiritual attack. (It’s not, he is just toxic.)
- You’ll ruin your kids if you leave. (No, you won’t.)
- Did you read that book about marriage? (Pay attention to the red flags.)
- Be patient. (If they do it once, they'll do it again.)
- For better or worse. (Jesus doesn’t want you to suffer.)
- It's just a season; things will get better (abuse only gets worse.)
- Are you desirable to him? (You even doubt your worth now.)
- How is your sex life? (sex is not the only important part of marriage.)
- What will society think? (You mean the snobs?)
- You have it going well for yourself. (No, you have settled for less.)
- He is just young and will get better as he grows… (No, he is simply an asshole.)
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It's also important to note that Daniella Atim recently rolled out a YouTube channel through which she will talk about the good and bad things that happened during the time she was married to Chameleone.