5 Grenade Official looks that win the breakup 'who's doing better' showdown

While you need to take time to heal and move on, it helps to feel good about yourself and show him or her that you are doing just fine.

Whether they care or not is a different story, but if you are going to play the appearance game, you better do it well. It also helps that these looks are somewhat similar to the five stages of grieving a breakup.

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These five looks from Grenade provide the best inspiration for post-breakup photo dumps that will hide the heartache well, from the instigator and public.

Expand your horizons

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Although liquor and cigars can scream heartbreak clutch, if you make them look classy you can get away with it without looking like you're spiralling. Go for labels, forego anything that says "cheap" in a picture even though its actual price doesn't leave a dent in your pocket.

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They didn't turn you cold

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If you manage to get out of the heartbreak without swearing love off, wonderful. Even if you don't survive that phase, posing with a teddy bear is one way to show them you are still soft and hopeful at heart and the breakup didn't damage that.

You're not alone

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Post your support system in various degrees of vulnerability and strength. Your support system has your back, surrounds you, and you can depend on them, is what your pictures should say.

You're taking care of yourself

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Posting a picture of you having a soft snack is a small but impactful gesture for yourself. Health habits can take a beating during emotionally challenging times. Having a simple snack can make all the difference for your mood, appetite and the camera.

The money shots

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Breakups can send you into hiding as you try to find your bearings. However, when you take a break from hiding and hurting, take pictures with wide shots in your weekend best. Not only do these claim your space and presence, but they also give you a break from the suffocating hurt.

Takeaway

Winning the post-breakup showdown can be good for your well-being and give you a nice ego boost. Focus on getting better and feeling okay but when you are feeling particularly vengeful, a nice picture that is not far-fetched from your reality can be a great way to channel the heartbreak.