8 tips on how to talk to anyone and hold conversation comfortably

Before we go deeper, it is essential to note that talking to people is a core factor in networking, making new friends and acquaintances, and getting connected to great people. This also means that it is one of the easiest things to do once you understand how it works.

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So, read along as we explore eight ways to talk to people and make conversation:

1. Start a conversation with a smile

Smiling is an excellent tool for easing into any interaction. People can simply have an affectionate connection with you simply because you put on a smile. When you want to initiate a conversation, walk up to the person with a smile. It also signals your body to relax.

2. Show genuine interest

When people notice you are interested in having a conversation with them, they will try to keep the conversation livelier and more enjoyable. So it is important to ensure that you are in the mood for a conversation.

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3. Approach the right individual

Let your instincts guide you on who to approach in a group setting with friends or a gathering. This is especially important when approaching strangers. It may be easier to find the right person for a conversation if you are around those you know. Usually, because you’ve known them over time and now see the person who you feel comfortable talking to the most.

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4. Talk to a familiar face

This is similar to the previous tip but has less to do with safety and more to do with feeling confident and comfortable expressing yourself without worrying about how much information you will let out.

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5. Keep the conversation simple

Not everyone enjoys complex discussions or intellectual chitchats. So keep it as simple as possible and don't be afraid to be direct. You may worry about being too direct but it is better to get corrected than worry about what you are going to say. If the person enjoys complex conversation it will come naturally. Just be straightforward and avoid using big words, or sarcasm too soon or too much.

6. Be polite and honest

Be honest in your conversations. Remember that there may be misunderstandings or conflict during conversation but don't shy away from it or think you are a bad person. As long as you are honest and polite in how you engage, you don't have to worry about how you come off and you can always correct mistakes.

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7. Avoid disclosing sensitive information

Leave your trauma and other sensitive information out of conversation especially when you are not familiar with the person. First, develop trust before disclosing personal and private information. Know when to pause, stop talking, and what not to say.

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While conversing with someone, it is okay to ask questions when necessary. If you are confused about something they said, politely ask them to elaborate on it. That way, you won’t get lost in the conversation or lose interest.

Additionally, conversations can be more enjoyable when more questions are asked. Hence, feel free to ask a few questions and, when necessary, answer some too.

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Final thoughts

Give any conversation a happy ending by thanking them for spending time to talk. Show gratitude for the interaction wherever you meet them whether at the bar, corporate event, the park, or in your neighbourhood. It shows that you were honest with the things you said and enjoyed every moment you spent with them.